What’s In A Name Anyways?
We have been blessed with some money from a very generous neighbor. They gave us money so Chandlur can be officially a Baird. About 2 weeks ago we had to go into the lawyers office and sign the petition. We had all the kids in tow. Afterwards we talked to Chandlur about what we were doing. He was so funny. He had no idea and didn’t really seem to even care. We tried to explain to him that his name will be changed from Hodgson to Baird. He said “Oh, like the name my teacher calls me?” We said yes. If you ask him his full name, he will tell you Baird (he can’t even pronounce Hodgson). We have brought it up to him a few times since and he acts like it’s no big deal. His nonchalance cracks me up. In about 2 months or so he will be official and no more of this name crap! He sees no difference in context to his family, however, when he has to pick out a face color, he tends toward brown. For instance, his favorite GI Joe has a brown face, when asked to color himself, it’s brown.
Maybe someday he will be curious or maybe not. Who knows. I thought at this point he would be asking questions. I think it’s so cute how he doesn’t seem to think twice about being different.
Speaking of adoption……Mr Spiegel is an adoption attorney and gave us info on adopting. Since I was a teenager I knew I wanted to adopt. After looking over it all, the bug has bit HARD! Much like the baby bug hits me. It won’t be for awhile though because we need more space. Maybe in a couple years……
