Vahn has been too incredibly cute.  Randomly he will come up to me and say “mommy, I wuv your baby”.  He even on occasion, will hug my belly and say he is giving my baby a hug.  I like to hear his sweetness so I provoke him sometimes.  I will say “Vahny, I love you and your baby”, or quietly say “I love your baby”.  He smiles his dimply smile with his head cocked sideways and his eyes have closed, and says “Nooo mommy.  I don’t hafe a baby.”  Then of course he says he loves my baby.  Sometimes he even will tell me “Nooo mommy.  Boys don’t hafe babies.  Only gills have babies.”  and he chuckles.

I guess Chandlur has babies on the brain. First I have to figure out how to explain about the man in Bend who is pregnant again. How confusing for a little kid! He looks like a man and he is going to have baby. After a pause trying to figure out what to say, I told him, he really is a girl but looks like a man. Whew, he took that. Then a little while later, THE question. “Mommy, how do babies get in mommies tummies?” O crap, another long pause figuring out what to say. I told him when a mommy and daddy get together. Whew! He took that and didn’t ask anymore questions. One of those questions you know is coming but are completely caught off guard when it happens.